Quoting: aedoran
Since you are a coach and father I have a somewhat revenant question. With happened in Chicago and incidents like that seem to be on the rise in all sports? Should we be doing more to educate them what do when something like that happens and maybe how to avoid it if possible?
$ follow the money. People in high places know hundreds of millions is at stake. So it’s often covered up. Sadly people only change when they get caught.
Terry Trafford in 2014 killed himself. Afterwards the CHL put in place a small group to help the players. It is 100% confidential and the help is for difficulties away from the rink. Example: drugs, pornography, girlfriend issues, homesick, etc.
The NHL is an even bigger market, with deeper pockets. At first the NHL didn’t want anything to do with this, but when it was forced to look into it and found credible the story, it shifted and now they will clean house, financially compensate and will put in place a much better system to protect future athletes.
This is not over in Chicago and more people will lose their jobs. In 2012, I was blackballed for speaking up and fired from a team by the GM because I protected the player from abuse.
This is not new and has been happening for fifty years. Finally people are getting caught and properly punished. I’ve met numerous coaches that only go in the room just before games. When I worked with hockey Canada, I taught coaches to be in the room as much as possible, to stop bullying, inappropriate sexual behaviour and to be a positive role model for their players.
I’m still friends with 75% of the players I coached from 1992 to 2015. Many have called to ask for advice on marriage, raising their kids and how to coach in minor hockey.
Standing up takes courage but it’s imperative to gather all the facts before passing judgment and not rely on the news or keyboard warriors.