Oof.

wait what

Give her some space but try and support her as much as possible. Sorry bro.

A lot of people are goint through a ruff patch right now. But I wish you to find someone that will appreciate you enough to see you as a part of the solution, not a part of the problem, in their personnal quest to happyness.

- IF she crosses the bridge, burn it. There's no turning back.
- The end of a relationship is always bad. Nice break ups dont exist. It's normal to feel awefull.
- You can't see it right now, but it's just the start of something else.

Sorry mate, I would offer you to go get a beer, but you know..

I’m sorry bro, idk man girls r tough. Try to get ur mind straight then think it out, don’t make a rash decision. Idk j trying to help, I’m definitely not the most qualified tho. Only u can make the best decision tho

Man that's tough to deal with. I'd say give her time and space but make sure she knows that you're there for her. Don't forget you have our support as well

This isn't the place for sage advice, but you should make sure she's getting professional help for the depression. Many times a person who is seriously depressed will push away those closest; she may feel like she's a burden to you. You know her best - is it a cry for help?

If shes insistent on space there isnt much you can do. Be there for her, support her how you can and if its meant to be it'll be. You dont need to give up on her you can be there for support. It's tough to go through mental health is tough. Don't rush anything new but also dont wait forever. Life has a weird way of working out and you can get through it

go to the strip club and have fun man.

Girls are confusing
Just try to support her as much as you can
Don't make it weird though

Tell her you've changed your allegiances, you are now a Leafs fan. Girls love Leafs fans.

Hence why they love me (not)

Hang with the boys.
The boys always got your back

And that includes us

She said she dealt with suicide thoughts in the past and got professional help. And now she said she can’t be happy and in a relationship and love someone if she doesn’t love herself first. She said her mental health has been going bad again. I never judged her and always did my best to listen and support her.

Lots of people are dealing with mental health issues and especially during these tough times. We're all in this together

Yeah but it’s tough because I was always there for her and she’d ask to come see me when her mental health was bad a couple of times and then she said it was better. And now all of a sudden she calls for a break. She was telling me to move in with her in May like for the past few weeks

Yea I can imagine how you'd be upset. Don't take it too personally, and maybe she'll reach out again when she's ready but don't be too pushy

Sharks are willing to trade a bay area woman with future considerations for their second rounder in 21.

Just make sure she gets professional help again. Because losing you might be the straw that breaks the camel's back, you know? Even though she's pushing you away, it's not going to help her.

Everyone is different, but I went through a similar patch with my SO.

"... she said she can’t be happy and in a relationship and love someone if she doesn’t love herself first."

I'd say just make sure she knows that YOU CAN, even if she can't. She needs to know that your love is unconditional. She CAN get back to that happy place and you'll be right next to her every step of the way there.

[Man I wish this site had a DM option.]

Yeah I’m not gonna be pushy. I kinda felt like she didn’t want to put me down with her in this process but will leave the door open. But also doesn’t want me to wait. But she told me I can still message her and she would too.

Yeah thanks. You can always reach out to me if u wanna chat more too. I’d love to know what I can do without hurting her or her pushing me away more

So at least it seems like you guys support each other still which is a good sign

She has a point here, maybe let her figure things out, support her, and once she’s got her mind straight swoop in and see what’s up. It definitely doesn’t sound like things are 100% over from what I’ve heard, but what do I know

Yeah we have everything in common and she said I’m her person like a million times and then was talking about moving in together