Quoting: stammerman
If the Lightning asked him to waive for whatever reason why would he try to force his stay on a team that obviously doesn't want his services any longer since he was asked to waive. Wouldn't it be better for him to try and find a team that wants him and will give him better chance to play more minutes, he can pick his next team from the suitors who inquire the Lightning.
These guys are human beings first. Idk anything about TJ off ice, but it's likely he family, friends, etc. that are established. There are likely very good reasons for him not to waive.
Second, they do want his services. He's a good player and he earned that contract (including the trade protection). He has held up his end and the team should hold up theirs. It's not his fault they are in cap trouble.
Finally, let's say he picks a couple contenders. How many can take on his contract without moving money out. Even if everything goes right and he's willing to waive and picks a team, that team has to want him and be able to afford him. And then that team isn't going to pay what he's worth or anywhere close.
I don't see it. Maybe Gourde waives to get a bigger role elsewhere. Maybe. If he does then TB lucked out. I think it's more likely one of Cirelli or Sergachev is gone though. They were fetch a hefty return, whereas Gourde or Johnson wouldn't even bring back what they're worth, so it's arguably better for the Bolts in the end anyway.
We'll see what happens. Not a fan of the team (nothing against them either), but I am looking forward to seeing how it all shakes out.